So relationships take a lot of work

I believe its worth it to stay in a long term relationship, however it is a daily decision to do so. Some cycles of life are easier and other times are very trying on the soul. It depends on the choice of life partner if its worth it in the end. I've seen her through AA, family drama surrounding the coming out process, as well as deaths of friends and loved ones.....life is tough. Also, we've seen a business grow and have developed our careers and home in a welcoming neighborhood with loving and fun friends. It is good overall. Sometimes I did wonder if it made sense to continue. We're 9 years on and its still worth it.